Friends are like eating from a box of chocolates, with your eyes closed, never know what you'll get! Actually, stick with the box of chocolates! Seriously, friends come on all different levels of connecting, from the friend you say hi to, to the one that is bonded to you under all circumstances.
Its a lot about positioning friends either close or just as hello friends. Being too close can create expectations that may not be forthcoming.
Few are even their own best friend and will likely treat you no better than they treat themselves.
Value friends and value acquaintances, through discernment consider which friends are better as acquaintances and which acquaintances are better as friends.
Be your own best friend and always find solace in that as people come and go throughout life leaving memories of joy and sometimes, disappointment.
Always know that many have motives for friendship and not all motives are bad, but some will prove to amount to false friendships once the motive, conscious or unconscious, is fulfillled or was an illusion anyway.
Those who open their hearts with no motives but sincere friendship become vulnerable to what may amount to vulture friends who pick at what satisfies them until they have no more need from that friendship.
Fair weather friends are as common as leaves on a tree that eventually turn color and fall off. As one loves oneself more, attracting fair weather friends becomes minimized.
Close friends are treasures to be valued. Lovers and relatives are best
Ongoing friends, some become acquaintances or even strangers as does happen with friends in general.
Often friends are for a time and place. They may open doors to gifts in the moment and may pave the way to a very different future.
Divine friends are found in all the many qualities of love, be it compassion, sensitivity, and all heartfelt blessings.
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