I mean some people can say things offhandedly, they don't even realise the impact.
I know most of the time it is out of habit.
For example when someone says,"pliz pray for me", the habitual respond is to say, "I'll pray for you" without actually meaning it.
I mean they're just saying that they'll pray but they don't actually do it.
They don't even realise that they are actually saying they're going to do something
which they have no intention of doing.
And for the person who is asking them to pray .. it is giving him/her false hope
To me ... if you're not going to do the things you say you're going to do, you might as well shut up
When you say something, mean it !!!
When I say something I meant it ... if I say I'll pray for my fren it means I pray for him/her
after & during every Solat ... Solat Subuh, Dzohor, Asar, Maghrib & Isya' & if I perform my Solat Hajat, I would include him/her in my Hajat too.
If I know I can't do the things I've been requested to do ... either I'd say I can't or
I"ll try (which means I'll really try) or I'd simply Shut up
C'mmon Man, don't give people false hopes & say things you don't mean.
Its frustrating to the person who is hoping.
Also ... I'm disappointed with people who " yek-yek " here, "yek-yek" there
but when you tell him/her why don't you "yek-yek" through the proper channel so action can be taken .... he/she suddenly backs off. And you're like Huh ???
Don't you want these people to act on your "yek-yeks" ???
Ayo .... you just want to "yek-yek" ah ???
Next time warn me la .... so I can plug my ears.
And I got into trouble for reporting.... Aduhai !!!
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Iam with you on that! this dude totally came up to me and was like hey can you try to get this girl that you know to talk to me? I looked at him and thought about it ..I was like ...you must be mad...why would i do that? I just literally looked at him like he lost his mind and just walked away from him as if his request was so Ridiculous it does not even deserve a response.
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