Cinta Ilusi

Cinta ilusi ??? Ini gara-gara janji deh ....
Membincangkan perihal cinta ilusi yg dimaksudkan Bro Unggas Rimba :-

i) cinta terhadap org yg tak pernah bertentang mata dgn kita .... maksudnya apa ye ??
cinta antara e-frens atau pen-pals ??? ..... saya tidak menolak kemungkinannya.
How that happens is as mysterious as cinta yg bertentang mata like yr heartbeat goes lintang pukang when you see him/her, in fact dengar bunyi tapak kaki pun dah cukup buat yr heartbeat lintang pukang.
Now how does that happen ???
Wallahu'alam
Err... tapi kalau bercinta dgn e-fren atau pen-fren, bila kala ye the heart goes lintang pukang ??? Bila terima mail lah agaknya kan...kan..kan ???
Yg parahnya bercinta dgn org yg tak pernah kita temui is that you could be in love with an illusion. Becoz yr penfren or e-fren may not be the same in person as he/she is in his/her mails ... so unless you can confirm that this penfren or e-fren is as good a person as he/she is in his/her mails then it becomes nothing else but illusions. So is it worth it ???

ii) cinta ilusi = cinta perasan ... yg ni boleh berlaku samada bertentang mata atau tidak.
Perasan org sukakan kita, sebenarnya org tu tak kisah pun kita hidup ke mati ..
Lebih dahsyat lagi kalau org yg kita perasan suka kat kita tu sebenarnya benci kat kita ....
Aduhai .... malangnya nasibmu !!!
iii) cinta ilusi = cinta dalam diam ... kiranya secret admirer la .....
Ni yg sesuai dgn lagu SO7 Pemuja Rahsia .....
Yg ni selalu berlaku dgn yg bertentang mata ..... tak tahulah samada ia boleh berlaku dgn org yg tak bertentang mata. Err... boleh kot ... huh???
Saya pernah terlibat dgn kes gini masa zaman sekolah dulu .... dgn member tuisyen.
Yg beratnya dia gi hantar surat ke alamat sekolah saya ... dah lah saya bersekolah di Sek Men Convent.... Ha engkau, tak pasal-pasal saya kena marah dgn Pengetua.
Akhirnya, sampai hari ni saya tak terima surat yg member tu kirim ... yg saya tahu ia adalah surat cinta sbb Pengetua tu dok membebel pasal cinta ... & I was like Ha ??? Duh ??? Apa ke benda la org tua ni dok merapu ???
Anyway.... my advice is : if you guys secretly like someone & you know that she's available
(Jangan kacau orang yg dah berpunya ha ....) do build enuff guts to at least give her the proper hints.... directly to her, please ......
kang tersilap aim kang...orang lain lak yg perasan
Proper hints ??? Hemm... well.... bagi bunga ke, chocolate ke, cake ke .... kad ke .... dedicate a poem ke ... err.. entah le. Tapi bab choc & cake tu , tgkla member kaki diet ke tak. Kalau kaki diet tak yah lah bagi choc or cakes... bagi diet pills....
Don't worry about the outcome...at least you've let her know. And most prob her true self will show after she gets the hint... whether she likes you / whether she thinks of u as just a fren or colleague. If she makes fun of you or turn the event into hot gossp of the year , then you know she's not worth it. At least I think so ... I mean it shows that she has no respect for you .. so is such person worth it ???

Anyway .... yg saya bincangkan tadi adalah cinta asli .. when you're genuninely in love like yr heart "flutter, flutter"
Kalau cinta yg tak genuine tu ... cinta yg ada muslihat, yg ada udang sebalik batu, yg ada kepentingan ....... tak cinta pun boleh kata cinta
Yang macam ni ..... hanya memporak-perandakan. Stay Out of it !!!